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Does He Like Me? Self-Assessment
Decode the signs and discover if he's interested in you romantically
Assessment Questions
1. When you two are in a room filled with other people, how often do you catch him staring at you?
2. Does he find excuses to touch you?
3. Does he remember little details about your life?
4. Does he subtly compliment you?
5. Does he always try to get you alone?
6. How would you describe your text conversations?
7. Does he get a little nervous when you're around?
8. Does he think you're the funniest person ever?
9. Does he open up to you?
10. Is he always finding ways to help you?
11. Does he try to impress you?
12. Is he constantly trying to learn more about you?
13. Does he ever seem to flex his muscles around you?
14. Does he seem to mirror your body language?
15. Do his eyes dip at all when he sees you?
ℹ️ Please answer all 15 questions to see your complete assessment results.
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Important Disclaimer
This is a self-reflection tool, not a definitive diagnostic test. Human relationships are complex and nuanced.
The best way to know if someone likes you is through open, honest communication. Consider having a genuine conversation when you feel ready.
Common Signs of Interest
Frequent eye contact and prolonged staring
Finding excuses to touch you or be near you
Remembering details about your life
Initiating conversations and texting first
Showing nervousness or trying to impress
Making an effort to help and support you
Building Self-Confidence
Remember: Your worth isn't determined by whether someone likes you back. Focus on building self-esteem that comes from within.
Practice self-compassion and self-care
Embrace your identity and uniqueness
Invest in meaningful relationships
Focus on personal growth and goals
Understanding Romantic Interest Signals
Body Language Cues
Body language often reveals feelings more accurately than words. When someone is romantically interested, they may unconsciously display certain physical behaviors that signal attraction.
- •Eye contact: Prolonged gaze and frequent glances in your direction
- •Mirroring: Copying your posture, gestures, or speech patterns
- •Physical proximity: Finding reasons to be close to you
- •Touch: Light, casual physical contact (respecting boundaries)
Behavioral Indicators
Beyond body language, certain behaviors and actions can reveal romantic interest. Pay attention to patterns rather than isolated incidents.
- •Communication: Initiates contact and responds promptly
- •Memory: Remembers details from your conversations
- •Effort: Makes time for you and tries to impress
- •Support: Shows genuine care about your wellbeing
The Power of Direct Communication
While signs and signals can provide helpful clues, the most reliable way to understand someone's feelings is through honest, respectful communication. When you feel ready and comfortable, consider:
- • Expressing your own feelings in a low-pressure way
- • Asking open-ended questions about their interests and feelings
- • Paying attention to both their words and actions over time
- • Respecting their response, whatever it may be
Helpful Resources
Self-Esteem Resources
Relationship Advice
- • Focus on healthy communication patterns
- • Build self-awareness and emotional intelligence
- • Remember that rejection isn't a reflection of your worth
- • Seek support from trusted friends or counselors
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