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Am I a Femboy? Self-Assessment

Explore your gender expression and discover if you align with femboy identity

Important: This is a self-reflection tool for entertainment and exploration, not a diagnostic test. Gender expression is personal, fluid, and unique to each individual. Only you can determine your identity. "Femboy" is often used as a positive term to describe male-identifying people who enjoy feminine interests, and we're here to celebrate that diversity!

Self-Assessment Questions

1. Pick a color to paint your nails:

2. Which outfit would you most want to wear?

3. Choose an accessory to wear:

4. In a relationship, would you prefer to spoil your partner, or be spoiled?

5. Which of these do you usually wear?

6. When you sit down, you usually:

7. Do you shave your body hair, like your legs?

8. Which of these is in your bag right now?

9. How high are your socks right now?

10. Here's the most important question: Do you want to be a femboy?

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Score Interpretation

75+
Strong Alignment
Certified femboy!
50+
Moderate
Femboy-adjacent
25+
Limited
Exploring style
0-24
Minimal
Traditional masculine

What is a Femboy?

A femboy is someone who identifies as male but embraces traditionally feminine aesthetics, interests, or styles.

  • It's about gender expression, not sexual orientation
  • Anyone can embrace femboy identity or aesthetics
  • It's a reclaimed term celebrating gender diversity

Understanding Femboy Identity

What Does Femboy Mean?

A femboy is someone who identifies as male but has traditionally feminine tastes, aesthetics, or interests. This can include makeup, fashion choices, hobbies, or general self-expression that blends masculine and feminine traits.

Is This About Sexual Orientation?

No! Being a femboy has nothing to do with who you're attracted to. It's about:

  • Gender expression: How you present yourself to the world
  • Personal style: Your aesthetic preferences and choices
  • Identity: How you see and describe yourself

Who Can Be a Femboy?

While the term includes "boy," being a femboy isn't strictly about your assigned gender at birth. It's more about:

  • A mindset that blends masculine and feminine traits
  • An attitude toward self-expression and identity
  • A celebration of gender diversity and fluidity

History of the Term

"Femboy" was originally used as a derogatory term but has been reclaimed by the community as a positive, empowering identity. Like many reclaimed terms, it's best to only use it when referring to people who identify with it themselves.

Remember: Your identity and self-expression are valid regardless of labels. Whether or not you identify as a femboy, embracing your authentic self is what matters most!

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